I am a photographer, so it was pretty much a given that I was going to have a first look. To me it just made sense for so many reasons. I wanted to spend as much time with Greg as possible—and a first look did that. I also wanted all of our photos done before the ceremony so that when it was ‘golden hour’ (aka the best light of the day) Greg and I could take as many photos as possible.
Choosing a first look is personal, but for us it was just right. I wanted to share what our first look was like to give you a little insight.
I had just finished getting ready and was walking out of the little bridal boutique we had rented out into the courtyard we were going to get married in. I heard someone yell ‘STOP’ because Greg as right around the corner. All I wanted to do was ruin our first look and see him right then. I was nervous and had all of the butterflies imaginable in my stomach. All I wanted to do was see Greg. He is my person. I wanted to hug him and feel safe. I restrained myself, they took Greg a different way and we got in place to have our actual first look.
When it finally came time, I remember taking a deep breath and walking up the stairs. He was waiting just under the California sign at Villa Del Sol. I tapped him, he turned, and we instantly both turned to mush. IT WAS OUR WEDDING DAY! A day 7 years in the making. We were finally here after every hurdle and struggle—it was our time. Greg was crying and I remember brushing away his tear. He wrapped me up in his arms and the rest of the afternoon we didn’t leave each other’s side.
To me, a first look just made sense. It got me what I wanted out of my wedding day.
P.S. In case you were wondering Greg also cried when I walked down the aisle too. So if you are worried about missing that ‘wow’ moment—don’t worry it can still happen.
Theresa Bridget is Colorado based photographer and blogger. She captures images that helps small businesses and influencers stand out from the crowd. She also writes about life, travel, and everything in-between.
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